If Bennifer Can Make It, Why Can't We?

It’s like it’s 2002 all over again. Bell bottoms, bucket hats, and Bennifer are all back. The question is, is the relationship between Ben Affleck and J. Lo going to last? After nearly 20 years apart, and having married other people, this couple is back together and engaged again. I have heard from many listeners and clients wanting to know how I feel about this couple, and if Bennifer can make it work, why can’t we?

It’s very natural to hold on to past relationships and hold out hope for the future. And we look for examples of other couples as evidence of our desired outcome. This week, let’s talk about this romance between Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, what it takes to make things work with your ex, and who my favorite couple is. 

If holding on to a past relationship is something you are wanting to heal and you are ready to invest in yourself and your future, this is the exact thing I help my clients within my group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. Or, for a limited time, I am again offering my 60-video course, with the same title as this podcast and as my group coaching program. With this course, you get lifetime access to the videos. To learn more, or if you have any questions, go to my website https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

Topics In This Episode

  • Why I believe J. Lo is so relatable in her heartbreak journey
  • Looking at what it means to be a love addict
  • The red flags of back-to-back relationships
  • Hitting pause on your dating life is so important! 
  • Repeated patterns in your love life
  • The work you must be committed to if you decide to get back with an ex

Resources

 

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!


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