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We’re taking a quick break, so enjoy this fan favorite from season 1! "Can you locate the things in yourself that you are holding back because you are scared your partner won't like it?” We’re talking polyamory. 

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Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

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So your partner is clear they want something that you are not. Okay, so they didn't say they want that thing and NOT you, but worse! They want to fulfill something that is entirely about them and doesn't seem to be centered around your needs or what you were hoping was going to happen. What the frack do you do now? ????????????

Join Ashe and Jessamyn as we explain our way out of the paper bag of confusion surrounding what could happen when your life, and your partnership, is not going the way you want (and we are not talking about choosing the wrong dinner spot). Can you locate the things in yourself that you are holding back because you are scared your partner won't like it? Are you secretly wishing those things would just go away? Are you being hard on what they are telling you because you think that loving someone and wanting to own them are mostly the same thing? Is polyamory scary because it is actually what you secretly want but are scared to do it wrong? ????????????