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This is a topic that I know will benefit some of you because this is the exact thing I needed to hear when I was dating before I met the love of my life, Larry. I know how it goes. You’re dating someone, you’re a few dates in, and you are getting those butterflies and you just want to invest all of your time and energy with them to learn more about them and get close to them. My loves, this is your reminder to really slow it down, and take your time. You’ve done the work of healing your heart and relationship with yourself. Take this time to see what’s out there, while also enjoying in the results you have created so far. This will not just benefit you, but it will benefit your dating life and your future as well. 

In this episode, I share with you some examples of circumstances that have happened as a result of not taking it slowly. I also share with you some of the benefits of dating at a slower pace. I know it can be fun to be swept up in the excitement of something new, but it also might not be serving you to dive in headfirst. 

If you find this to be hard and difficult, I invite you to head over to my website, https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com, where you can apply for my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. Or, for a limited time, I am again offering my 60-video course, with the same title as this podcast and as my group coaching program. With this course, you get lifetime access to the videos, and will also be able to join me for 5 live group coaching calls the first week of February 2022. This is my most affordable and accessible offering. If you have any questions, please reach out to katie@clairetheheartbreakcoach.com

Topics In This Episode

• The first step in healing your heart is to clean up your story 
• My recommendation on how many dates you should go on in one week
• Continuing to swipe
• Notice the expectations you’re placing on the people you are dating
• Pay attention to whether or not they are on the same page as you 
• There are no guarantees, so you have to be willing to feel the discomfort
• Having the conversation about slowing things down 

Resources

• Episode with Kelly, From Lost to Found: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2022/1/17/from-lost-to-found
• Episode, Empath Life In Romantic Relationships: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2021/8/9/part-one-empath-life-in-romantic-relationships

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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