Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Focusing on wanting a relationship to work in the future while it’s currently struggling, will F you up! Ask yourself : Why do I want to make this relationship work RIGHT NOW? And there has to be a better reason than love. Then if you are clear and do know you want to make it work for GOOD reasons, not desperate ones— get clear on what it is he/she wants and WHY. Then move through the challenges CONSCIOUSLY together, if you both are willing to move through the challenges together. Then what you DON’T do is RUSH into the next step of worrying about the relationship. You just BE in the relationship! Trust that the time to discuss the future will come from a place of security and love, and not desperation and fear.
