Ep 351 Master Your Marriage ft. Robert & Sharla Snow

Did you know the average couple waits 6 years to get help in their marriage. That's 6 years of pain, hurt, frustration and lost opportunity.

On this episode of Strong By Design we have special guests Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow — themselves married for 31 years — helping other married couples find and develop the tools to strengthen their relationships.

Their podcast, The Master Your Marriage show, delivers straight-talking guidance on how to fill your marriage with fun, friendship and love, without it ever feeling like "hard work."

Today co-hosts Jared Haley and Chris Wilson discuss the value in identifying strengths and weaknesses in your relationship, how to navigate triggers, the five areas to examine in your marriage and much more.

No matter how long you've been struggling with your marriage, or how long it's been since you've felt that "spark," Robert and Sharla promise you, there is hope!

"Relationships are a lot more disposable now than they used to be." - Robert & Sharla Snow

Time Stamps

1:02 – Welcome to the ‘Strong by Design’ podcast

2:55 - Meet today's special guests, Robert & Sharla Snow

7:17- Divine Institution: How Marriage mirrors the process of becoming a better spouse

8:27 - Discover a captivating story of their first few years of marriage

15:04 - Marriage as a Masterclass: The goal and mission of parents

19:45 - Sharla talks about the value of identifying the strengths and weaknesses in the relationship

23:11 - Vision Statement: What does it look like to have a 'shared' future?

26:13 - The value of creating rituals in a relationship

30:24 - Value-driven Behavior: The Snow's share the ultimate goal of their podcast

31:43 - 69 percent of relationships have THIS problem

38:27 - Understanding the patterns that compromise goodwill

41:52 - The importance of 'Code Words' in promoting healthy conflict

49:43 - How to bring God into the aspect of marriage

54:42 - Unspoken Resentments: When should you apologize?

1:02:05 - To be Influenced: What's the kind of relationship we want?

1:09:35 - The power of 'Friendship' in marriage

1:14:10 - Where you can go to connect with Robert & Sharla Snow and learn more about their Podcasts