255. Answering your burning questions on marriage

Join Jesse and I this week as we sit down together for a lighthearted and insightful episode in which we tackle some burning questions submitted by our awesome listeners. From marriage insights to travel adventures and even a humorous mishap involving a locked door at 2 a.m., Jesse and I spill the beans without holding back.

We kick things off by discussing our recent spontaneous trip to Kansas for Easter, where our three little ones proved themselves as seasoned travelers. Exploring a goat farm and reconnecting with old friends added unexpected joy to our adventure. Listen in as we also reflect on our marriage journey, sharing advice and revelations from over two decades together. From the importance of daily flirting to embracing unexpected paths, we delve into what keeps our bond strong.

If you are curious about Jesse's nerdy tendencies or our family dynamics in the kitchen, then this fun episode is a must listen for you because we spill the tea on these fun topics and more. Plus, discover the secret sauce behind our seamless teamwork and communication, even when I'm feeling overwhelmed.

Also, don’t forget to check out my newly launched 10 Weeks to a More Organized Home!


In This Episode

[0:35] - Jesse and I are excited for a lighthearted episode answering Instagram followers' marriage-related questions!

[1:55] - David felt uneasy on the first flight of our recent trip to Kansas due to a stranger nearby but soon relaxed.

[3:48] - The kids enjoyed interacting with goats, showing their growth and fearlessness compared to before.

[5:40] - I discuss Silas accidentally having fallen asleep, locking us out of our house at 2 a.m.

[8:09] - A listener responding to our 1900s episode shared about having a car phone in the 1990s for safety concerns.

[9:29] - I have been enjoying Lemon Loaf Tea from TAZO, despite not typically liking lemon tea.

[10:26] - My younger children are captivated by the Farmer Boy book from the Little House series.

[13:25] - Before we dive into the questions, check out our free Simplified Home Checklists on our website!

[15:13] - Jesse and I have been married for twenty-two years in January.

[15:54] - For married couples, my advice is to flirt daily; it keeps the connection strong.

[17:33] - Jesse gives some advice to married couples, emphasizing that people should admit when they're wrong and prioritize communication and flexibility in marriage.

[20:17] - Reflecting back, I would make different choices, focusing more on God's love and less on others' approval.

[22:08] - I express gratitude for our financial decisions, allowing us to say yes to David.

[23:55] - I reveal that Jesse and I alternate cooking duties, sometimes tag-teaming with our older kids pitching in.

[24:52] - How nerdy was Jesse when we met?

[27:07] - How did we know how big we wanted our family to be?

[29:49] - In 21 years, we've cultivated an intuitive bond, anticipating each other's needs and openly addressing frustrations to improve our communication.

[32:11] - Jesse argues that the key is recognizing that we approach situations from a place of love, not opposition, with each other's best interests at heart.

[32:56] - When overwhelmed, I confide in Jesse, who offers support or a listening ear; gratitude and encouragement nurture our bond.


Links & Resources

Crystal Paine

250. What it was like living in the 1900’s :)

TAZO Glazed Lemon Loaf Herbal Tea Bags for Health and Wellness

Simplified Home Checklists


Books

Farmer Boy: Little House, Book 2 by Laura Ingalls Wilder


Little House on the Prairie (book series) by Laura Ingalls Wilder


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