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How do you initiate sex?  Does it ‘just happen’? Do you make the first move? Do you usually leave it up to a partner?  This is a topic that comes up a lot with couples that I’m working with in therapy and the articles I share on this topic are always popular.   Initiating sex can be incredibly anxiety provoking. We’re all sensitive to feeling unloved.  If we make a move, and our partner doesn’t reciprocate, we can feel like they’re rejecting us - and no one wants to feel that way.  Many women I speak to, tell me that they psyche themselves up all day to make a move on their partner when they get home, but then, they feel too nervous and back out. Or  they just feel like they don’t even know how to…  Or that they try - and their partner doesn’t seem to be interested.  In this episode I share some of the common challenges of initiating sex and then ways you can initiate that are intimate, fun and sexy. I hope you enjoy!