Tips for Divorcing a Hijackal® When Children are Involved - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
When you considering divorcing a toxic person, or when you ARE divorcing a #Hijackal, and you have children, there are many considerations that might be important in other divorces. #Hijackals MUST win. They don't really want the children as much as they want to have control over whether or not you have them. And, of course, they want control over the children, too. People--you and the children, in particular--are what we call "supply" to Hijackals. You supply them with validation, attention, interest, and all other things each one needs to feel large and in charge. Whether you say you're leaving, or a Hijackal is discarding you, that #Hijackal still want to control the situation in every way possible. When you have children, there are very specific things that are different and MUST be considered. Aside from the co-parenting, there are other details its important to stay mindful and aware of when divorcing a Hijackal and you share children. Protecting your children's emotional and mental health needs to be top of the list in this process. Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 -------------------------------------------------------------- I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT! Learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Optimize Circles now. Discussion groups safely off social media + videos + articles + webinars + 21 Steps to Empowering Emotional Savvy personal home study program delivered by email + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me. WOW! Join now. OptimizeCircles.com Only $5 for the first month at any level. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond. CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Website: TransformingRelationship.com Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.