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What You Need To Do For Your Kids When Co-Parenting With A Hijackal® Ex! A #Hijackal parent is not benign: s/he affects the way your children see themselves and think about themselves. The #Hijackal parent models behavior for children long before the child even has language. Your children have already seen too much, right? You've left, and removed yourself from the day-to-day influence of the Hijackal. Only problem with that is that your children have to go to the Hijackal's house and you have no idea what s/he is saying or doing to your kids! On top of that uncertainty, you have to uphold the condition that most divorces in the US contain: you promise to not speak badly of the other parent to the child. Most #Hijackals ignore that. Best if you don't, though. When the children tell you about what's going on at the other house, and how they feel about it, validate the children's feelings, and support them to view things in healthy ways. So much to learn about coparenting with a #narcissist or other kind of Hijackal, and today's episode will help. Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Website: TransformingRelationship.com Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingdifficulties #coparenting #coparentingwithahijackal #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.