#138 - Lessons Learned
Awesome feedback on previous shows. Thank you to all of you that took the time to comment! Lessons learned by newly weds when it comes to wedding planning. If it can be delegated, do it Hiring Pros Be more patient with your fiancé Stress less and let go Things will happen Do it because you want not because everyone else is doing it Decor, dress, traditions Eat in private Dinner while signing docs or before the reception, food will go cold Schedule alone time during the day 10-15mins Don't be fooled by Pinterest weddings Most are actually styled shoots Incredibly expensive Be flexible with timeline Be ok with letting go of things, garter toss Don't stay to clean, guests are waiting for you to leave Don't compare your wants to what is in trend Learn to say no or delegate, someone, to do it for you Take breaks from planning when needed One nonwedding planning date Being realistic about the budget Don't pick your bridal party until 6 mos before wedding Pick people who are willing and able to help you Don't take on too many projects DIY – Time, skill, finances RSVPs, check in with them, phone, text, and email Number RSVP Cards Not everyone remembers to write their names on them Wedding website with lots of info Plan ahead for clean up Checking local events prior to wedding date selection The Music and the vibe are what people really remember Photography and videography are the most important vendors you choose so don't rush that decision Don't spend too much on consumables because you won't really be able to resell or re use most of it. (Rent) Prioritize and put it in the calendar Designate someone to be ready to take care of last minute hiccups Pamper yourself for a few days before. Take some time off, even just a few days Discuss what is most important as a couple Food truck...outside vendor Set a budget early so you can shift earlier and do budget check ups Vent with other brides helps to refocus and feel like you aren't alone Spend time nonwedding time with friends and bridal party Detailed oriented friend Remember you can reach us anytime by emailing info@fromringtoveil.compg Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} pg -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-pg
