017 – He Is My Brother And I Will Find Him
Renee searched for her mother literally her whole life. But her search predated the internet so she frequented the library and scoured local high school year books. with hopes of finding someone she felt she was related to. When she located her biological mother she refused to share any information about Renee’s biological father and forbade Renee for searching for her biological brother. The more you tell a person not to do something, the more they want to do that very thing and Renee swore to definitely search for her brother. Ultimately DNA testing unraveled the mystery. She takes a lot of comfort in knowing that her father was a pretty cool guy and someone she would’ve admired. Even after a tumultuous childhood, and severed ties to her biological mother, Renée said she has no regrets about searching for her biological family and she would do it again. The post http://www.whoamireallypodcast.com/017-renee-m/ (017 – He Is My Brother And I Will Find Him) appeared first on http://www.whoamireallypodcast.com (Who Am I...Really? Podcast). Renee (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=3.3 (00:03)): I started running away from home when I was four and when they would find me, I would have my little suitcase, my little flower power suitcase, and they would say, where are you going? And I would say, I'm going to go sign my mother. So I started searching for my mother before I even knew what it meant. Voices (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=27.52 (00:27)): Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Damon (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=38.94 (00:38)): This is Who Am I Really, a podcast about adoptees that have located and connected with their biological family members. Damon (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=53.56 (00:53)): Hey, it's Damon and my guest on the show today is Renee. She was born in the 60s where her adoptive mother felt there were high expectations for what a family should look like and for her to be a mother. Renee shared that her upbringing wasn't a warm family environment at all. In her house, all of the caregiving things that parents do for their children, she had to do for herself. She was abused by her father and that abusive behavior was passed down to their biological son. When Renee had reached her limit, she ran away from home to start a new life and to try to find her biological family. Renee's journey begins in Houston, Texas. Damon (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=97.85 (01:37)): She says her mother felt pressure to make her family meet societal norms, but she wasn't a very good mother at all. And her adoptive father was abusive. Her childhood had no love, no friends. And the children basically raised themselves. Renee (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/Ylv_mHxQRPLcsrOCRGuDsC7Lmzmma0dLbPf00Lit8BrmFLWK4A1ANjiiUoS5xnwPteK5zmCUWQff_NeTwdyVXiDzECw?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=111.86 (01:51)): My adoptive parents tried to have a child of their own for about 10 years and they weren't able to so they adopted my older brother who's not related. And then three years later adopted me because you have to have the boy and the girl and the boy has to be older and girl, you know, um, my adoptive mother was extremely rigid and rule bound and she, I don't think she actually wanted to be a mother, but society dictated that she had to be. So that was in order to appear... Support this podcast
