087 – A Journey To Find Out Where I Came From
When he was a kid, Bill saw clues here and there that he was adopted, but no one ever actually said it. It wasn’t until he called an uncle he’d never met before that the truth was revealed, turning Bill’s world upside down. Reunion with his birth mother was an emotional event with a woman who was told never to speak of his existence again. Bill talks about how he felt toward the father he grew up who took the secret of his adoption to his grave, and how redemptive it’s been to be accepted by his birth parents and his new siblings on both sides. Read Full Transcript Damon: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/4bGtDikRO0I1wk8OUh62nteQ22wNBWTCvnikn1Swq3OhSXMizq1AZVcuMVcScKI0AddTzYpEVNRShs1b9b5v8YMer_g?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=0.03 (00:00) Hey there. I just wanted to take a sec to let you know that in between producing the show, chasing my son Seth around and generally living life, I took time to write a book about my own adoption journey. It’s called Who Am I Really? Of course. If you’d like to preorder a copy, go to WhoAmIReallypodcast.com and click shop where you will be redirected to the publishers bookstore. I hope to make it to your reading list. Okay, here’s this week’s show. Bill: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/4bGtDikRO0I1wk8OUh62nteQ22wNBWTCvnikn1Swq3OhSXMizq1AZVcuMVcScKI0AddTzYpEVNRShs1b9b5v8YMer_g?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=30.17 (00:30) I just realized that what was so upsetting was all the stuff I had missed. I missed 54 years with these people. I missed 54 years with my parents. I missed 54 years with my aunts and uncles and my sisters that I’ll never get back and that was really, really weighing on me and I just, I got to a point where I learned that I have to just accept that and I got to try to get past it. Voices: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/4bGtDikRO0I1wk8OUh62nteQ22wNBWTCvnikn1Swq3OhSXMizq1AZVcuMVcScKI0AddTzYpEVNRShs1b9b5v8YMer_g?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=65 (01:05) Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Damon: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/4bGtDikRO0I1wk8OUh62nteQ22wNBWTCvnikn1Swq3OhSXMizq1AZVcuMVcScKI0AddTzYpEVNRShs1b9b5v8YMer_g?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=76.44 (01:16) This is Who Am I Really? A podcast about adoptees that have located and connected with their biological family members. I’m Damon Davis and on today’s show is Bill. He called me from Virginia Beach, Virginia. When he was a kid, Bill saw clues here and there that he was adopted, but no one ever actually said it. It wasn’t until he called an uncle he’d never met before that the truth was revealed, turning Bill’s world upside down. He talks about how he felt toward the father he grew up with after learning the news and how redemptive it’s been to be accepted by his birth parents and his new siblings. This is Bill’s journey. Bill tells his adoption story in parts. I gathered, It was because he’s had to accumulate the facts over his lifetime. The first part of his story he calls, what I knew, where he describes exactly that, the things that he... Support this podcast
