086 – Second Time
As an interracial adoptee and musical artist, Ferera grew up feeling different from her adopted family. When her adoption was tearfully confirmed by her Mom, it created doubt within her about whether it was okay to be different? Ferera met her birth mother, and the woman’s twin sister, so their reunion was a shared experience that somewhat fractured the intimate connection Ferera would have liked to have developed. She’s in touch with her birth father, but they’ve never met b/c he lives in the Philipines. Stream Ferera’s song “Second Time” via: https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113a3k16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Soundcloud) | https://open.spotify.com/album/4gjk5nJo8Zy84JqpVO8Pvv (Spotify) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nQEmTCGCi0 (Watch Acoustic Version on YouTube) Connect With Ferera: https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113a6k16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Website) |https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113a7k16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Facebook) | https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113a8k16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Twitter) | https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113a9k16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Instagram)| https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113aak16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (YouTube) |https://zoho.email-view.com/click.zt?linkDgs=312b824b113abk16863ad1e85amailDgs=312b824b113a2aver=a78101656d9c1ed0bd939597d2d6a7c7b3700e87442b9ff704fac491dfbf0679 (Soundcloud) Read Full TranscriptFerera: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/ulkJUPa-_BGHbMy68evN783kLYdHE9rPwWCp9QT5d_9lNvSeoI_xn_B-eM8PLnmyUGTKScTCKbaVXWHEq6i4_4otsKc?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=1.2 (00:01) She said that I was making it all about me and I do believe that she was saying that out of her own pain. For an adoptee. It’s like, well, I didn’t choose this. I didn’t ever choose to be adopted. I didn’t choose for me to be in this position and so I wanted to work it out. I really did and so when I reached out to her and tried to talk about it, I suggested let’s get on the phone because emails are just, things can get misconstrued, but I never did hear back from her again. Voices: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/ulkJUPa-_BGHbMy68evN783kLYdHE9rPwWCp9QT5d_9lNvSeoI_xn_B-eM8PLnmyUGTKScTCKbaVXWHEq6i4_4otsKc?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=34.75 (00:34) Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? New Speaker: https://www.temi.com/editor/t/ulkJUPa-_BGHbMy68evN783kLYdHE9rPwWCp9QT5d_9lNvSeoI_xn_B-eM8PLnmyUGTKScTCKbaVXWHEq6i4_4otsKc?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=47.16 (00:47) This is who am I really a podcast about adoptees that have located and connected with their biological family members. I’m Damon Davis and on today’s show is Ferera. She... Support this podcast