Ep. 213 - The SRC Day 5 - The Male Mind & You
???? Shana Rishona Challenge Day 5: The Male Mind & You
I feel like I could talk for a year about the male mind and not lose interest. If I could go back and talk to MYSELF as a newlywed, this is what I'd share with her first:
Listen to what he's saying.
I don't mean listen to what he seems to be saying. Or listen to what he's implying. Or listen to what he means.
I mean the actual words.
Men are refreshingly, amazingly, brilliantly direct.
I can't tell you how many times a woman I was coaching was telling me about the disapproval/frustration/judgment she was getting from her husband. When I asked her for the actual WORDS he said, she paused.
And thought.
And asked, "wait... do you think he really meant... what he was saying?"
He did.
Phew. ????
???? Your challenge today: Listen to the actual words. If you think he means more than he's saying, just ask. He'll tell you.
It's such a treat to be married to a man!
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