Dealing with Sadness through Self-Compassion (sadness and Polyvagal Theory)

Emotions, including sadness, are not random but are responses to our body's state. Use this three-step process to begin feeling your sadness with self-compassion.

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01:11 Understanding Sadness and Emotions

01:40 The Polyvagal Theory and Emotions

03:37 Recognizing and Validating Sadness

04:10 The Three-Step Process: Validate, Normalize, Give Permission

06:24 Anchoring in Safety and Dealing with Sadness

10:11 Different Flavors of Sadness

11:09 Polyvagal Trauma Relief System and Conclusion

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Crisis resources:

  • National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233
  • LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673
  • Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741
  • Call 911 for emergency

This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

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