For Me, Not To Me
This episode comes straight from the heart as I reflect on a powerful shift in perspective: what if life isn’t happening to us, but for us?From a scary Christmas moment with Korbin to the everyday challenges of toddlerhood—like tantrums, toy struggles, and big emotions—I’m learning to reframe my motherhood experiences as lessons, not punishments. Even in the mess, the overwhelm, and the unknown, there’s always something deeper at play… and something beautiful growing underneath it all.I’m inviting you into this vulnerable story and sharing how I’ve been grounding myself in the mantra:“This is happening for me, not to me.”especially when things feel chaotic, heavy, or just plain hard.At the end, I’d love to hear from you:What’s your for me, not to me moment?DM me on Instagram @calmandcolorful or share it in your stories so we can reflect together.
