Solo - When I read Clan of the Cave Bear | Good Girls Talk About Sex

Solo - When I read Clan of the Cave Bear

Good Girls Talk About Sex is now a weekly show! Every other week you’ll get these shorter solo episodes where I tell bits of my story and answer YOUR questions about sex and sexuality.

Thanks to Jessi Kneeland for interviewing ME! She is an amazing body image coach and I highly recommend following her on Instagram and signing up for her weekly #TransparentTuesday emails.

Here are some time markers for this episode:

4:57 – Jessi Kneeland interviews Leah
5:42 – Leah’s first memory of sexual pleasure, including a significant kink interest
11:15 – Looking at her father’s adult magazines that she wasn’t prepared to handle as a child
12:55 – Jessi and Leah reminisce about both reading “Clan of the Cave Bear” at ages 10 or 11
16:00 – Leah’s sexual confusion in her early 30s
17:30 – What did Leah learn about what sex was “supposed to” be like as a kid?
19:00 – Leah’s dad’s message to her about getting “fat and ugly”
20:30 – The way Leah conflated sexuality and assault in her head
22:35 – AM I NORMAL? Introduction
24:35 – Listener question – Is it normal to fantasize about my partner cheating on me?
25:00 – Leah’s answer – This is a fetish referred to as being “cuckolded,” and it’s more common than you would think!
27:39 - Ways to indulge the cuckolding fantasy without fully acting it out and having your partner sleep with another person