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Voluptuous Leah is a plus-size model and Instagram influencer. At the time this episode is released, she has over 166,000 followers and she regularly posts photos of herself, her adorable dog Luna, cute plus-size fashion, and plus-size lingerie. You can find her on Instagram at Voluptuous Leah and her website at www.VoluptuousLeah.com

Voluptuous Leah is a 31-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, plus-size, and in a new relationship while going through a divorce from her previous husband.

The major theme in this episode is sex as a plus-sized women.

Here are some of the notable moments she shared with us:

• 6:40 – Leah’s first memory of sexual pleasure
• 9:00 – How she broke her ankle because she was looking at a boy that she had a crush with
• 12:15 - Her relationship with her ex-husband and how he fetishized her larger body
• 14:45 – Her new relationship and how he interacts with her and her body

The Lowdown – (15:20):

• Do you have sex during your period?
• What’s the approximate number of sex partners you’ve had?
• Do you prefer clit stimulation or penetration?
• Do you think it’s generally easy or challenging for you to orgasm?
• Have you ever faked an orgasm?
• What’s your favorite way to orgasm during sex?
• Do you need to make accommodations for sex in a larger body?
• Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbating or sex with another person?
• Can you orgasm from penetration alone without clit stimulation?
• What kind of touch do you enjoy most?
• What are your hard red lines?
• Are there sexual things you’ve tried that you never want to do again?
• How do you feel about your partner masturbating without you in the room?
• How do you feel about your partner watching porn?
• Do you have hair down there or are you bare?
• Have you ever had a threesome?
• Do you enjoy giving blow jobs?
• Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
• Do you ever worry about your smell or taste?
• How do you feel about ass play?
• Do you enjoy dirty talk during sexual encounters?
• Do you enjoy laughter during sexual encounters?
• Have you ever felt a sexual urge that confused you?
• What’s your favorite part of your body?
• What’s your least favorite part of your body?
• What is something about your current sex life that isn’t quite as satisfying as you’d like it to be?
• What beliefs did you have about sex as a child or teenager that you wish you could correct her on now?

Sex in the age of COVID-19 (25:50)

In the second half of the show, we talk about how to manage sex in the age of COVID-19 (or any infectious disease!)

• 27:06 – Is it okay to be intimate with your live-in partner?
• 30:32 – How do you keep the flame alive if you’re seeing each other WAAAY more than usual?
• 32:30 – Three Minute Game - leahcarey.com/threeminutegame
• 34:24 – Sexual Scientist - leahcarey.com/sexualscientist
• 37:12 – Bossy Sex - leahcarey.com/bossysex
• 39:55 – How do I bring intimacy back into my relationship that has become more like roommates than lovers?
• 41:05 – Dating while socially-distancing
• 42:08 – Adding questions to the STARS protocol to cover virus exposure (find the STARS episode at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stars-method/id1436501617?i=1000430306198
• 44:20 – Sexting, sexy video chats, remote control vibrators

More links from this episode:

• Curvy Girl Sex book
• SheBop for sex toys - coupon code HUNKERDOWN (15% off online orders through at least March 31, 2020
• Sunny Megatron’s live stream about how to connect with partners and do sexy things when you're self-isolating due to the virus - bit.ly/sunnygetvokl

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Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you!

To learn about Sexual Communication Coaching, visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching

Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)

Editor – Gretchen Kilby

Music by – Nazar Rybak