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An interview with “Blue Topaz,” or “Blue” about fetish play versus sex Show notes: Blue is engaged and sexually monogamous with fiance, who is also in kink scene Some history of Blue’s involvement with kink and vanilla relationships / The boundaries and agreements about kink vs. sex with fiance and other people Needle play is something Blue does with other people Rope play is something fiance does with other people Fire play is something they do together with other people More about fire play Subspace described How and when she subs or doms What kink is really about and how she got involved in the scene About munches Safety and consent among kink / swingers Where the play happens About her bisexuality and how it works within her relationship with her fiance and kink play More about her vanilla relationship past Public openness about involvement in the kink scene More about needle play Even more details about fire play The luck of finding her kinky partner The nature of kink relationships — being open right off the bat New kink interests on the horizon: Fire floggers on wish list / Kink registry for wedding! A note about kink people: They are normal and fun! / Join us! / Explore but be safe The respectful nature of kinky folks as opposed to "normal" / vanilla folks LINK: Blue’s profile ( https://fetlife.com/users/2076767 ) with videos of the fire play and examples of other kink play Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy a Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy