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Constant drama in one of your relationships?

Are you frustrated and resentful, but unsure how to change things?

Do you fool yourself by making excuses for the other person's poor, damaging, or degrading behaviors?

No more, OK? You will feel SO much better when you are confident that you can:

• set boundaries
• express your boundaries
• maintain your boundaries
• set consequences for trampled boundaries
• follow-through on the consequences

Right?

Of course.

If you had a #Hijackal parent, you are used to having your boundaries trampled. You likely wonder if you know anything different! That's because all Hijackals® believe that things should be their way or the highway. How dare you have a point of view, or a desire for something different than they want you to have!

And, how about name-calling? NO! That's not OK at all.

How do you stop it? In today's episode I use stopping name-calling as an example to take you through the steps to setting boundaries, through to following through on the consequences of trespassing a personal boundary.

Follow these steps, and you'll soon be more comfortable with creating boundaries.

What's the pay-off? Less drama over time! Whoo- hoo!

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• Why constant drama may feel comfortably uncomfortable to you
• Why you may be hoping too much that the person really loves you
• Steps to setting and express clear boundaries
• When you need to set consequences
• Empowering yourself to be assertive

I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.

Let's talk soon. I can help. Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE for only $97.

I hope this empowers you to make positive changes NOW.

Talk soon.

Rhoberta

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

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