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*What is love, really?* *The thing is, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of explanations about what love is and what love should feel like. However, no one talks about the really important stuff – what love is not.* *See, sometimes you get stuck in an unhealthy relationship unknowingly – you’re not even aware love shouldn’t be like that!* *That’s because you think that’s the way things should be.* *It’s what you’ve been unintentionally taught while growing up. It’s what Hollywood teaches us – to give ourselves unconditionally.* *However, love doesn’t always work that way.* *Because remember, YOU deserve to be in a loving, supportive relationship that will make you feel good about yourself. I’m sharing my own PERSONAL experience of how I learned – the hard way! – what love is not and how do I tell if a relationship is worth my time!* Support the show ( https://www.instagram.com/bernadetteballa ) (https://www.instagram.com/bernadetteballa)