lystn

I was recently talking with a friend who is newly in love. She has asked another friend of hers, who is single, to hang out with her and her new partner, but the friend has turned her down because she didn’t want to be the third wheel. This is a topic I’ve also talked about with clients and listeners before as well. Instead of holding onto feelings that aren’t serving you, what if you turned it around and you used the couple that you were spending time with as evidence of what’s possible for you? In this episode, I share with you why it is so important to manage your mind around enjoying these friendships, and how to get over your victim story in order to call love in.  Topics in this episode Finding love during a pandemic Looking for moments when your heartbreak is serving you versus hurting you You must be willing to lean into the pain and take responsibility Whiney victimhood is never going to serve you.  It all starts with your mind, and with an appreciation for what is. Use the friendships of those around you in happily committed relationships as examples of what is possible Healing your emotional inner child  You wouldn’t be bitter if you really felt that it was in the cards for you.  Resources Grant Cardone, The 10X Rule: https://www.amazon.com/The-10X-Rule-Grant-Cardone-audiobook/dp/B005DGW34C Brit + Co Article, How to Get Over a Breakup During COVID: https://www.brit.co/how-to-get-over-a-breakup/ My Heartbreak Story: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story Brook Castillo, The Lifecoach School Podcast: https://thelifecoachschool.com/podcasts/ Setting the Bar Too Low: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/8/31/setting-the-bar-too-low Work With Claire  https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/work-with-me Editing and show notes by Roth Media