Learning From Your Mistakes
This episode is inspired by a listener review, and as much as I have the best intentions, I know that my coaching isn’t for everyone. My insight and coaching as a heartbreak coach only works for those who are open and willing to work with me. But I know that I’m not here to serve everybody. This particular listener wrote that I don’t take my own advice and that when I first met my boyfriend, I spent a whole weekend with him. I understand how this could be triggering. She raises a great point. When I first met him, our date lasted 36 hours. The truth is that I had been on a soul-searching and coaching journey and that I had put in the work, especially in the last two years when I’d been working with my coach Stacey Boehman. I had decided to call Mr. Right in my life and had done a ton or workaround that. I had committed and I knew that even if things didn’t work out, that I would be ok, and that I wouldn’t fall apart. And I would do it all over again. That’s the key. Doing the work and learning from your mistakes. Sleeping with someone on the first date is a neutral circumstance. And for some of my clients, I know that it is not what’s best for them, and they need more time doing the work in order to be ready for that and to heal. Look at your growth journey, look at what you need to focus on, and do the work. Love, value, and show up to yourself. Be the better version of yourself. It may be about healing your heart from Mr. Wrong or healing your heart from yourself, and from there, you can create whatever you want to with your life. Topics in this episode Positive or negative reviews are neutral circumstances I am the best coach, with best results because I am with the best coach! Thriving businesses with different phases What not to do if you’re not done with healing Everybody has different growth experiences A mistake is a thought Do you want to continue blaming, shaming yourself? Or do you want to move forward and heal? Why one on one coaching is the most powerful and transformative way to heal Resources Claire’s interview with client: Natalia Rotman: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/5/11/claire-interviews-client-natalia-rotman Feeling not enough: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/5/4/feeling-not-enough My heartbreak story: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story Stacey Boehman: https://staceyboehman.com/ Ashley Graber: http://www.ashleygrabertherapy.com/ Brooke Castillo: https://thelifecoachschool.com/ Byron Katie: https://thework.com/
