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This week’s episode was inspired by a client I was working with recently. She is in her mid-20’s and I am so in awe of her and the work she is putting into herself and how hard she is working to create space for her ideal relationship. She had a hard time this week after realizing that she didn’t like that she didn’t have a boy to talk to, and it made her feel icky. I know that this is very common among my clients and listeners. In this episode, we dive into this topic and I remind you that it is possible to retrain your brain for you to believe that you don’t need someone in order for you to feel good. And if you want to take this work to the next level, go to https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/work-with-me Topics in this episode We cannot create space for mister right to come in until we’ve really cleaned up our story  What would it look like to really commit to not showing up at any location where you think he might be?  Noticing when our brains try to bend the rules What it means to actually do the work  Letting go of limiting beliefs Sometimes we need to have a little FOMO to carve out the space to welcome Mr. Right Awareness is the first step  Resources My Rock Bottom Heartbreak: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story Saying No To Mr. Unavailable: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/2/16/saying-no-to-mr-unavailable What’s Self Love Really About: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/8/26/whats-self-love-really-about Byron Katie, Loving What Is: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-What-Four-Questions-Change/dp/1400045371 Brooke Castillo’s podcast, The Lifecoach School: https://thelifecoachschool.com/podcasts/ I Don’t Get It, Episode 163: https://idontgetit.libsyn.com/ep163-heartbreak-remedies