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How to distinguish a Mr. Unavailable? Simple: Look for all the signs, all the signals which would utterly see how pathetic their reasoning is, like hitting on you, making you feel so vulnerable and blows your mind, yet, gives you the BS excuses of not committing on you. This hot and cold behavior should be a trigger point for warnings. Seeking validation, a delusional sense of validation, from these types of men to make yourself feel better can only lead to your demise. We, women need to know where we stand in the relationship. Let's not waste our precious time with men who only think of themselves. Those pushing and pulling scenarios which give you false hopes, toying with your emotions. This has to stop. It does not feel right to get yourself entangled with them. If you keep on attracting emotionally unavailable men, you will hinder yourself from attracting the right guy for you. Never forget to put yourself on the pedestal, claim your faults and learn from it, and be open to love again.  Saying NO to Mr. Unavailable can only be a challenge if you kept on believing that he's not. But, if you see how amazing it is to let yourself be loved by that one true person, I always believe that you will grow together and be a better version of yourself. Topics in this episode True love is saying I love you without needing to hear it back What are the core fundamental needs? The hot and cold behavior, gaslighting, and the excuses unavailable men do. Know and understand the characteristics of an unavailable men What is emotional available about you? How an emotionally available woman attracts an emotionally available man? What is an emotionally available woman thinks? What makes a great coachable client? Don’t play with other people’s emotions Resources All I Want is for Him to Come Back: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/3/4/all-i-want-is-for-him-to-come-back Brooke Castillo’s podcast, The Lifecoach School: https://thelifecoachschool.com/podcasts/ With Ashley Graber: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/10/28/is-it-my-gut-or-my-projection-with-ashley-graber