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What is love, really? The thing is, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of explanations about what love is and what love should feel like. However, no one talks about the really important stuff – what love is not. See, sometimes you get stuck in an unhealthy relationship unknowingly – you’re not even aware love shouldn’t be like that!   That’s because you think that’s the way things should be. It’s what you’ve been unintentionally taught while growing up. It’s what Hollywood teaches us – to give ourselves unconditionally. However, love doesn’t always work that way. Because remember, YOU deserve to be in a loving, supportive relationship that will make you feel good about yourself. I’m sharing my own PERSONAL experience of how I learned – the hard way! – what love is not and how do I tell if a relationship is worth my time!    Support the show (https://www.instagram.com/bernadetteballa)