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Voluptuous Leah is a plus-size model and Instagram influencer. At the time this episode is released, she has over 166,000 followers and she regularly posts photos of herself, her adorable dog Luna, cute plus-size fashion, and plus-size lingerie. You can find her on Instagram at Voluptuous Leah and her website at www.VoluptuousLeah.com Voluptuous Leah is a 31-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, plus-size, and in a new relationship while going through a divorce from her previous husband. The major theme in this episode is sex as a plus-sized women. Here are some of the notable moments she shared with us: 6:40 – Leah’s first memory of sexual pleasure 9:00 – How she broke her ankle because she was looking at a boy that she had a crush with 12:15 - Her relationship with her ex-husband and how he fetishized her larger body 14:45 – Her new relationship and how he interacts with her and her body The Lowdown – (15:20): Do you have sex during your period? What’s the approximate number of sex partners you’ve had? Do you prefer clit stimulation or penetration? Do you think it’s generally easy or challenging for you to orgasm? Have you ever faked an orgasm? What’s your favorite way to orgasm during sex? Do you need to make accommodations for sex in a larger body? Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbating or sex with another person? Can you orgasm from penetration alone without clit stimulation? What kind of touch do you enjoy most? What are your hard red lines? Are there sexual things you’ve tried that you never want to do again? How do you feel about your partner masturbating without you in the room? How do you feel about your partner watching porn? Do you have hair down there or are you bare? Have you ever had a threesome? Do you enjoy giving blow jobs? Do you enjoy receiving oral sex? Do you ever worry about your smell or taste? How do you feel about ass play? Do you enjoy dirty talk during sexual encounters? Do you enjoy laughter during sexual encounters? Have you ever felt a sexual urge that confused you? What’s your favorite part of your body? What’s your least favorite part of your body? What is something about your current sex life that isn’t quite as satisfying as you’d like it to be? What beliefs did you have about sex as a child or teenager that you wish you could correct her on now? Sex in the age of COVID-19 (25:50) In the second half of the show, we talk about how to manage sex in the age of COVID-19 (or any infectious disease!) 27:06 – Is it okay to be intimate with your live-in partner? 30:32 – How do you keep the flame alive if you’re seeing each other WAAAY more than usual? 32:30 – Three Minute Game - leahcarey.com/threeminutegame 34:24 – Sexual Scientist - leahcarey.com/sexualscientist 37:12 – Bossy Sex - leahcarey.com/bossysex 39:55 – How do I bring intimacy back into my relationship that has become more like roommates than lovers? 41:05 – Dating while socially-distancing 42:08 – Adding questions to the STARS protocol to cover virus exposure (find the STARS episode at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stars-method/id1436501617?i=1000430306198 44:20 – Sexting, sexy video chats, remote control vibrators More links from this episode: Curvy Girl Sex book SheBop for sex toys - coupon code HUNKERDOWN (15% off online orders through at least March 31, 2020 Sunny Megatron’s live stream about how to connect with partners and do sexy things when you're self-isolating due to the virus - bit.ly/sunnygetvokl If you like this show, please leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls. Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you! To learn about Sexual Communication Coaching, visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email) Editor – Gretchen Kilby Music by – Nazar Rybak