6: Healing From Sexual Trauma
This episode of the Inner Hoe Uprising will be a discussion on sexual assault and trauma. We have placed time codes for the specific section below. Please proceed with caution. Akua a Sam are joined by Karen to discuss the process of healing from sexual assault. Bae(s) of The Week: Daniel Dae Kim, Michael Smith, Cardi B a Rashida Khanbey Hoe(s) of the Week: @HarlotofSatan, @MadameLazet, @CidVicous_13, @amadeupwife, Lattrice W a Mow Self Care Tips: View pornography that is representative of yourself Fuck That (Current Events): Sex Robots can kill us in the future, Brian Austin Green’s remarks on his son who wears dresses, children and gendered clothing, Brock Turner defined as a rapist in Criminal Justice textbook Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A discussion on healing from sexual trauma. Sub topics include: repression of traumatic memories, teachers as abusers, women as abusers, femme on femme sexual violence, childhood sexual assault, racial power dynamics, telling friends and romantic partners about being sexually assaulted, writing as a form of therapy, manifestations of trauma in everyday life, the terms “survivor” and “victim”, when to tell people in your life that you were sexually assaulted, physical triggers, creative non fiction, self safety reassurance, acceptance, venting to others, how trauma can affect your intimacy and sex life, dealing with a fear of intimacy, sexual encounters whilst dealing with trauma, when your abuser is revered in the community, fear of not being believed, protecting Latinx students of color in white spaces, to tell or not tell your parents, and advice and words of encouragement for people afflicted by sexual assault Fuck Me (Our Lives): Neglecting yourself sexually, dating apps (STILL) suck, when your partner is a demisexual with a high sex drive for you Fuck You (Your Lives): How to avoid a toxic ex who goes to high school with you TRIGGER WARNING(S) Brock Turner, Stanford Rapist: :26:20-:30:10 Discussion on Healing from Sexual Assault a Trauma: :30:10 - 1:40:44 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Queer Porn Sites: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/best-lesbian-porn-sites/ Life Out Loud: https://bit.ly/2H2AZOZ Help Rob a Nova: https://www.gofundme.com/rob-nova-hospital-bills RESOURCES FOR THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ASSAULTED NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE 1800 656 HOPE SAFE HORIZON RAPE, SEXUAL ASSAULT AND INCEST: 212- 227-3000 NYC CRISIS LINE: 1888NYCWELL WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A BITCH Paypal.me/innerhoe WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com MUSIC Opening: “Queen S%!T” SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: "Krown Heights" PrinceShortyFly Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck Me: "Revenge (Of the Nerd) That Sat Behind You" PrinceShortyFly Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: "Day Dream" Dramangar ENGINEERING BY http://wongtunes.com/ SOCIAL MEDIA Show | IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Akua | IG: @heyakuagirl | Snap: heyyakuagirl Sam | IG a Twitter: @slamridd | Snap: Samannerz Karen | Personal IG: @KarenDrankTheRootBeer Snap: KarensRootBeer #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist