[HINDI] How To Avoid Impact Of Negative Thoughts Entertained In The Past?
Q: What can we do today about the negative thoughts that we have entertained in the past, the arrows that have been shot, whatever wrong orders that we have placed in the past? Answer: For those orders you are not suppose to do anything directly. At that time right after placing such negative orders (through negative thoughts or saying negative words) you could have said, ‘cancel, cancel, cancel’ to cancel these orders. But now these orders of past are like the arrows which have been shot. But now you can start working on what you want now! At that time there was ignorance. But now, whatever solution you think is applicable for current situation, start working on that. Suppose a bottle of milk is broken, then the actionable thing is to collect and clear pieces of glass to avoid someone getting hurt. The actionable thing is to avoid further damage or repair whatever is possible. This is the actionable thing. Start working on that. Also start giving new orders in your life. If some wrong people have come in your life like, mother in law, daughter in law, husband, wife, neighbors, boss etc… These people have come because you have given orders in the past. People give such orders by watching television. Consider example of a girl watching a television show, while watching that show thoughts run in her mind, if I get such mother in law and she says something like this, I will react in this way. I will teach her a lesson. Same is the thing with a mother of a son who thinks, if I get such daughter in law, I will do this and that to teach her a lesson. They don’t realize these thoughts are the orders they are placing for their future. To watch such TV serials there shall be eligibility criteria. Everyone shall not watch these shows. Likewise there are many sick people who watch news channels. Consider a sick person lying on the bed in hospital with his one leg hung and watching the news… He needs to look at his situation, what these news channels has brought in his life. What more evidence does he wants? At least now he shall start watching something sensible. People who often fall sick or who have habit of getting in the fights shall be more careful with TV shows, what to watch and what not to watch. Because after watching these programs they just give repeat orders which will further attract sickness or situations of fights in their life. They don’t realize this. Whatever are your past orders ignore them. But now you can do something because of which when these old orders will start manifesting in your life you won’t feel their effect or it will be felt very mild. This can be done. Suppose because of your past orders you remain sick today but what is your new order now? Suppose you have poor digestive system, so your new order can be, ‘Now I want my digestive system to be very strong and healthy, now I can digest anything’. What will happen after this new order? If your old orders begins to show their effect you won’t feel it or you will feel little pain or discomfort because you have become so strong. Suppose you are sitting in the meditation and old orders began to show their effect, your body started feeling pain but all these pains reminded you of the experience of self. So what happened? All old orders came and went but you only enjoyed them because you were in meditation. You also took benefit from them. You converted these orders in the ladder of growth. So don’t just keep crying that you gave negative orders in past. If a girl is thinking that she has watched so many TV serials and unconsciously ordered so many negative things and now is worrying about her future life, how it will be after marriage. Then she is just suppose to start ordering correct things now, so even if her old orders manifest she won’t notice them. This is how you will be able to take full benefit of ‘Thought Rules’.