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Have you ever dealt with a control freak? Don’t they always have a critical say in everything? It is either their way or the highway.Most people who cannot be dominated have arguments with controlling people while others who agree to them hold on to resentment for them. However, there is a better way to deal with such people. Use the right words around controlling people. Avoid replying to them with sarcasm and calmly communicate how their behavior makes you feel. Don’t use the word “no” around them as they might find it aggressive. Also, don’t sweat the small stuff. Allow them to make decisions for smaller things but when it comes to bigger decisions give them lesser information and state your limits. Such people also do not like sudden changes and so inform them prior.“No matter how perfect we make our lives, we always want to control something. We are powerless outside of ourselves and so we must let go of the illusion of control”- Ritu Malhotra.In this episode, your host Ritu Malhotra shares why controlling people behave in a certain way. Their actions are triggered due to anxiety and fear and they use control as a defense mechanism.Listen to the entire episode to know how to deal with such relationships. Meet your host: Blending Psychology with SpiritualityRitu Malhotra firmly believes in blending Science with Spiritualism to bring in faster and more permanent transformations. Applying Biofeedback, Muscle-testing, and Kinesiology- with Spiritual wisdom, she helps her clients stem out deep-rooted issues at the cellular level to reprogram them to holistic well-being. To know more about Ritu and her work visit https://ritumalhotra.com/ See what her clients say: https://ritumalhotra.com/testimonials/ **The Cellular Alchemist is produced and managed by DFYP**